“…writing and revision are the paired beats of a scholar’s life.”
–William Germano
From Asia to Europe (and back) All in the Same Day!
Here is a short video my wife and I put together of our afternoon adventure from Asia to Europe and back–all in the great city of Istanbul, Turkey.
How to Meet your Summer Goals (Part 2)
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Last week, I detailed out the first part of a plan to help you make and meet your summer goals.
It starts by completing these two short sentences:
I would feel better about myself if I ____________.
I would feel better about myself if I did not ____________.
The objective is to complete the sentences simply, with one idea.
For example, you may have said:
I would feel better about myself if I rode my bicycle more often this summer.
I would feel better about myself if I ate more salad.
I would feel better about myself if I spent more time with my niece.
And you may also have said something like:
I would feel better about myself if I did not buy potato chips from the vending machine at work every afternoon.
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How to Make and Meet your Summer Goals (Part 1)
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With summer now upon us, there may be some goals–perhaps still lurking from your New Year’s Resolutions–that you’d like to conquer over the next few months.
One thing I’ve learned over the years is to be systematic when completing tasks or working towards meeting goals.
In my free e-guide, I explain an easy way to meet goals and be productive. In a post about writing out your goals with a pencil, I talk about the importance of using the eraser.
In this two-part blog post, I provide another simple methodology that can help you make and meet your summer goals.
What I present below
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“…the lower our environmental footprint, the greater our capacity to do good in other areas.”
–Charlie Bresler, Executive Director of The Life You Can Save
How To Remember Your Baptism
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A couple of years ago, my wife and I attended Holy Week services in our old neighborhood in England, at a church where chimes ring out each day from a tall bell tower. Inside, columns and arches frame each side of the nave, and a large, gold icon of the sitting, crowned Christ is painted on the wall high above the altar.
On Good Friday, a cross with the figure of Christ was placed in the center aisle. People lined up and knelt down, one-by-one, kissing it before returning to their seats. The next evening, we all stood outside around a lit campfire—the fire representing Christ’s victory over death and darkness. From this flame, a large Easter candle was lit, symbolizing the risen Christ, and we followed this candle, procession style, into the church for the Easter vigil.
Inside, we were invited to
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“When evil men burn and bomb, good men must build and bind. When evil men shout ugly words of hatred, good men must commit themselves to the glories of love. Where evil men would seek to perpetuate unjust status quo, good men must seek to bring into being a real order of justice.”
–Martin Luther King, Jr.
3 Things We Can Learn from Steve Harvey
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Steve Harvey’s mistake–naming the wrong contestant as Miss Universe 2015–was something we all cringed at.
We all felt bad for everybody involved, including Steve Harvey.
But there are 3 key takeaways from this snafu that I think we can all benefit from.
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The Problem with Re-Gifting
Think before you re-wrap that old gift
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When we lived in Cambodia, sometimes my wife and I ventured out for evening desserts.
Occasionally, we bought them from a woman who set up a table each night in the open-air market a block from our apartment.
One evening, I selected sticky rice from her selection of large bowls of colorful desserts. It was 50-cents.
I watched her spoon out a blob of sticky rice and push it into a small plastic bag with her fingers.
I thought about how her hands were quite possibly dirty, though she was simply doing what was normal in that culture.
On our short walk home, I decided to give the dessert to the security guard who sat out in front of our apartment building each night. The sticky rice just didn’t appeal to me anymore.
The security guard was happy to receive the treat. And I was pleased to give it to him.
Later, though, I thought about the whole matter.
What if the security guard thought that I had bought the dessert specifically for him?
What if he thought more highly of me because of that?
What I Learned from my Last Day of School
The value of proper conclusion
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Every morning last month I attended a Turkish course at a language school in Istanbul.
Toward the end of the course, I learned that there would be a final exam on the last day.
All month, I had completed most of my homework and studied when I could.
But as I realized just how hard the final exam might be, I was quite sure that I would not pass it.
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Can Facebook care?
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On Saturday morning, I woke up to find a picture at the top of my Facebook homepage that reminded me of something from six years ago. My roommates and I had taken funny pictures around the old La-Z-Boy recliner in our kitchen. It was like our Christmas card family portrait.
I’m glad Facebook reminded me of that memory. I presumed that Facebook also posted the same photo to the homepages of my old roommates. In a sense, it kind of brought the four of us together again in some magical, existential way—us all remembering the fond memories of that evening and our life together that year.
If recalling that fond memory wasn’t enough, Facebook even told me that it cared about me.
“John, we care about you and the memories you share here,” Facebook wrote, above the picture.
But as nice as it was to re-live that memory, I don’t think Facebook pinned that photo to my homepage only to make me feel good.
Nor do I think
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“We cannot ignore religion and theology and understand our world.”
–Harvey Cox, my former professor
Understanding why we fight
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Waiting at the water department in Istanbul, my wife was number 30 in line.
After she was there for a while, the office closed for lunch.
And everybody waited longer.
Someone made a comment about the dysfunctions of bureaucracies in “Muslim countries,” and that sparked a small shouting match.
A government employee finally intervened and the security guard appeared.
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“Theology by its very nature is, or should be, troublesome. If theology is doing its job applying the teachings of the prophets—from Jeremiah to Jesus to current issues—it will inevitably vex the guardians of the status quo. It is part of theology’s job description.”
–Harvey Cox, my former professor
How to have a Life Make-over
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This morning, I’ve thought: If I were to have a Life Make-over, what would it be like?
To get from Here to There, what would it require?
First, it would mean identifying what I don’t want in my life and then planning–and committing–to changing so that I can do what I want to do.
Doing what I want to do (do I even know what I want to do?) requires first being who I want to be.
A Life Make-over for many of us, I’d imagine, requires a lot of changes.
Sometimes I think about my past–in good and less-good ways.
I think about who I was in order to think about who I want to be.
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“Elusive God, companion on the way, you walk behind, beside, beyond; you catch us unawares. Break through the disillusionment and despair clouding our vision, that with wide-eyed wonder, we may find our way and journey on as messengers of your good news.”
–Anglican Prayer, Third Sunday of Easter
“As people of faith in something greater than ourselves, or as people who want to live meaningful lives with purpose, how do we propose to live? And what difference are we going to make?”
–David Hempton
The inconvenience of privilege
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We Westerners enjoy many privileges. We drink clean water from the tap and can defecate in a toilet without paying a fee. Unless we travel abroad, we aren’t at risk of contracting malaria or any number of other diseases. We enjoy a great deal of freedom. Our human rights are protected. We know English as our native language. We have easy access to the Internet.
If you’re like me,
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Why everyone is one year older in Turkey
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This morning, the New York Times reported that a famous politician in Turkey passed away at the age of 90. A Turkish newspaper also reported that he had died, but at the age of 91.
Which is correct? Was he 90 or 91?
They both are.
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The problem with ‘doing good’
We just don't know how to do it well
At the top of an email I received today, was this quote:
“Go into the world and do well. But more importantly, go into the world and do good.” (Minor Myers)
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I read it a couple of times, over and over, just to make sure I understood it.
Do well. Do good.
What does that mean?
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Enjoyed a concert by the men’s a cappella group from Yale, “The Spizzwinks(?),” performing in our neighborhood in Istanbul. They performed in tails in a 9th century Byzantine cistern. (In the 9th century, a church stood atop this cistern.)
One tip for a successful day
When I finally received my Turkish residence permit, we went to a restaurant we’d never been to. (more…)
God’s ultimate justice
I was talking with someone recently about botched justice: when someone deserving punishment doesn’t really get it.
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That’s the unfortunate reality for many places in the world–some people aren’t punished accurately.
This person said that, when justice was not accurately (or adequately) received on earth, there was somehow comfort in believing that it would, ultimately, be received from God.
Now, I’m not one to say that someone is going to hell; that’s not for me to decide.
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“Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness…Broad, wholesome, charitable views of men and things cannot be acquired by vegetating in one little corner of the earth all one’s lifetime.”
–Mark Twain
Chasing wishes on a cobblestone path
Photos by Ayşegül Bektaş Frame
Every year on April 23, thousands of Turks board ferries and make their way to the largest island off the coast of Istanbul.
Many of them purchase a spool of colorful thread from vendors lining the cobblestone path to the top of a high peak, and they unravel the spool as they walk.
Interestingly, in a country that is 98% Muslim, those making the pilgrimage each year are walking towards a Christian monastery, named after St. George, that sits at the top of the mountain. When they get there, they hang charms in the trees of the churchyard.
They also light candles. They wish. They hope. They pray.
Inside the church,
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“What kind of us are we?”
–Helen Small
Video: the Islamic Call to Prayer
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Five times every day in the Middle East, the call to prayer rings out loudly from mosques all over the land. Loud speakers, attached to the mosques’ towers (called minarets), allow entire neighborhoods to hear the müezzin calling out the prayer from inside.
Often, you’ll hear a chorus of prayers from different mosques.
The prayer is in Arabic; this short video, shot while my wife and I were walking in a nearby park one evening last week, captures a short segment of it.
When the call to prayer is heard, many people
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